Regarding this article publish on 19 October, Goo Hara member of a girl
group KARA states that one of the junior girl group did not give them a proper
greetings.
Now following this article another article came out to explained to
netizen who are not familiar with respecting the elderly in all aspect of daily
life; Heres the link
I am Malaysian which generally practice this asian culture of respect the elderly. I find it trouble to explain to my non-asian friends. In my life I have once
rejected this culture during years in boarding school. There the seniors
practically can do anything to the juniors on the other hand the juniors can do
anything. Well to me its ok as long it did not bother us the junior at that
time that much. But the hatred developed when the seniors started to make us
stayed up all night without any valid reason at all.Well at first it is because
of our lack of discipline which I have to agree on as my batch is not that
discipline. However as time goes on and their reason started to make no sense.
Then it gets worst after we the juniors try to make a complaint to the
wardens.However to our disappointment, instead of the seniors being punish,
it is us the junior got the punishment. These events carried on for about 8
months and along that time we tried to complaint again to the wardens. Once
again the complaint is ignored and yes we got (i wouldn't say it as bully but
to make it simple its similar to bully) . All the time we have to be
patience and the feeling of dissatisfaction and anger build
ed up throughout that one year of hatred. Next it is our turn to become
seniors, and we had a batch meeting and after much discussions ;we decided to
have a somewhat selfish policy (a policy in which the seniors will not in any
way disturb or interfere in the juniors daily life activity and
vice versa). This policy have pros and cons to it.
The
Pros: - Technically we have do not have a major fight and just a few
minor disagreement with them. The Seniors have a bit time of peacefulness.
The
Cons: - The relationship between the seniors and the juniors are kept
professional and the seniors seldom talk to the juniors . The juniors' attitude
towards the teachers are lacking. The teachers now complaint more about the
attitude of the juniors and again blame the seniors for not properly educate
them.( Note that there are a few juniors that practice this culture well
without having to teach.)
Now
back to the main topic. I would not say I agree and like this culture 100%. I
am okay with this culture as long as the seniors did not violate the basic
human right and the juniors didn't do something stupid enough to make any
person angry. Now in my opinion in terms of the sunbae - hoobae terms , let say
group 1 consist of 5 members mostly age between 24 - 29. Group 2 consists of 9
members age between 18 - 22. Group 2 debut 4 years earlier than group 1. now in
my sincere opinion I think if the group 1 (the whole member) met with group 2
in a music show or music award; group 1 has to respect group 2 more and group 2
has to respect group 1 as oppa/hyung/unnie/noona - dongsaeng. Well when it is
outside the music show or music award for instance one of group member 1 is an
MC or permanent guest on a variety show the fellow member group 2 has
to respect him or she as oppa/hyung/noona/unnie. I know its kinda complicated
but try to understand slowly.
I am sorry if there is some
misunderstanding about the fact stated in this article or any spelling or
grammar mistakes that I had made in this article.
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